Reconciliation

Homily for Wednesday of the Fourteenth Week in Ordinary Time

The story that we hear in the reading from the Book of Genesis about Joseph is powerful and timeless. As Joseph recognizes his brothers in Egypt—after everything they had done to him—the scene crackles with emotion, complexity, and humanity. Though it is an ancient story, it can relate to our experience of family and community in our own time.

Joseph had every reason to seek revenge, yet he ultimately chose reconciliation. At first, he seems to use the situation to his own advantage so that he can see his younger brother again. Benjamin and he were sons of Rachel, Jacob’s first love. In a world often driven by payback and pride, Joseph's grace reminds us that healing and forgiveness can break cycles of pain and build stronger bonds.

Joseph sees his brothers, but they don’t recognize him. That’s more than a disguise—it’s about how people change. So often we relate to one another as we did in an earlier situation in life. We don’t consider the possibility that they may have changed. Joseph is challenged and challenges us to look at others (and ourselves) with fresh eyes, allowing room for growth and redemption.

Joseph’s journey—being sold, imprisoned, forgotten—led him to a place where he could save his family. That speaks to the idea that even in hardship, there might be a bigger purpose at work. We have all experienced difficulties in life. Joseph’s story gives us a powerful example and encouragement when life feels unfair or confusing.

The story doesn’t shy away from the messiness of family: betrayal, guilt, and deep emotion. Yet it also shows us that relationships can be repaired. Many of us know the sting of fractured connections; Joseph’s reunion gives hope that reconciliation is possible—even after long seasons apart.

This story from Genesis is ancient, but it's brimming with relevance for modern hearts. Whether we’re grappling with forgiveness, navigating family dynamics, or trying to find meaning in our own struggles, Joseph’s path lights the way. Of course, the story is also proleptic in that it gives us a window through which we can come to a better understanding of the passion and death of Jesus.

The Eucharist reminds us that betrayal, hardship, and suffering can all lead to redemption. This sacrament is the ultimate sacrifice of reconciliation.