Happiness is not Joy

Homily for Wednesday of the Eighteenth Week in Ordinary Time

Whether someone stumbles upon faith or seeks it out diligently, the kingdom of heaven is portrayed as being worth every sacrifice, because of the deep, lasting joy it brings. The parable speaks of joy which is so different from happiness. Many seek the latter and never find it because happiness is fleeting; it depends upon the circumstance of the moment.

Joy, on the hand, is anchored and enduring. It’s that steady, soul-level contentment that holds firm even when circumstances change. Unlike happiness, which often depends on what’s happening to you, joy can exist within you regardless of external chaos. You feel connected to something bigger than yourself—a purpose, a calling, or even a divine presence. It gives you a sense of why you're here. Even in tough times, this kind of joy doesn’t vanish. It’s not denial—it’s resilience. It is peace in the storm. You find contentment in the little things. It is that warm moment when you pause and think, this is enough. For many, it’s tied to their faith—knowing they’re loved, guided, and not alone gives a joy that’s hard to put into words.

This is what drives both of the individuals in the parable we read today to sacrifice everything so that they can attain this kind of joy. As we receive the Eucharist today, allow the presence of Jesus within you to bring the joy of the buried treasure that lies in your heart, the joy of the inestimable pearl that is, in fact, communion with the Lord. For the grace that is received with Jesus is a joy such as the world cannot give.